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"A Relapse of an Author: The Cry of a Nation."

WRITER'S BLOCKAGE An author often finds themselves on the edge of creation, gazing into a vast uncertainty. The blank page can feel mocking, while the cursor blinks incessantly, amplifying doubts. Crafting each word is akin to navigating a tight rope over a void of meagreness. Yet, within this improbability lies the promise of greatness, the potential for a narrative that rises above fear. Fear of Imperfection Imaginative people repeatedly face with the shadow of mistakes. The anxiety surrounding imperfection can be paralyzing, similar to a relentless editor whispering, "Your words are insufficient." However, every great work carries the legacy of revisions, ink stains, and scribbled-out phrases. Embracing imperfection is essential; it is the pulse of authenticity and a reminder that vulnerability fosters connection. Public Expectations A hungry public awaits the next literary endeavour, while critics sharpen their pens in anticipation. Nonetheless, an author mu...

The Illusion of Perfect Friendships

Friends and things they can't tell you We all yearn for those deep, unshakeable friendships that feel like they'll last a lifetime. The kind where we can be our authentic selves, share our deepest secrets, and know that our bond is unbreakable. However, the truth is that even the most extraordinary friendships have their imperfections. It's easy to fall into the trap of believing that everyone else has it all figured out, that their friendships are flawless, and that they never experience the ups and downs that we do. This creates an illusion of perfect friendships, a mirage that can leave us feeling inadequate and insecure. The Fear of Losing You: Why Friends Conceal Their Flaws We all crave a sense of belonging and acceptance. This yearning for connection often leads us to present a carefully curated version of ourselves to the world, especially to those we hold dear. Friendships, like any close relationship, can become a delicate dance where both parties strive to ma...

The Silent Suffering of Men

  A call for action As I sat down to write this piece, I couldn't help but think of all the men I know who have been silently suffering at the hands of those they love. Men who have been emotionally manipulated, used, and discarded without anyone batting an eyelid. Men who have been conditioned to suppress their emotions, to bottle up their pain, and to put on a brave face for the world. The statistics are staggering. According to a recent study, 1 in 5 men experience depression, and 1 in 10 men experience anxiety. But these numbers don't even begin to tell the story of the countless men who suffer in silence, too ashamed or too proud to seek help. As I delved deeper into this issue, I realized that the problem is not just about individual men, but about a societal norm that perpetuates toxic masculinity. A norm that tells men they must be strong, stoic, and emotionless. A norm that encourages them to suppress their feelings and hide their vulnerabilities. But what does t...