So Many Men (River Runs Tears)

When a man's thought is high, then a bridge

 Life is what we take to keep us alive; whether it’s in the past or present, things keep happening. Many men suffer at the hands of women. Like all people, it’s a normal norm for women to do what they do. No one interferes, whether by law or religiously. When women abuse men, use them for their hard work, and manipulate them using their looks or sexism, it often goes unnoticed. Men are born not to cry out loud when they're in pain as women do. This is the story of all the brave men out there who live and die with pain. Your voice will be heard, and I’m here as a messenger making sure the next men will learn from your story.

In the heartstrings of relationships, many creatures believe in the power of love without truly understanding what other hearts endure. It is a phenomenon that has been observed through time: people who engage in loving relationships without preparing themselves for the emotional depth and complexities involved. They enter these unions with a belief that love is enough but fail to consider what the other heart truly feels about it.

Some individuals can live to like you but never fully embrace loving you. They never delve into the depths of genuine affection but instead appreciate the notion of calling someone an ideal partner. This partner, in the end, doesn't participate actively in the relationship. Have you ever asked yourself what other people bring into your life if not the burden of making decisions?

In these relationships, decisions are often imposed on you. The other person decides everything and tries to make it appear as though their feelings are directed towards you, but in reality, they can only view life from their own perspective. The essence of a loving relationship is lost in the midst of these imposed decisions.

To make matters clinical, money is often what drives them. In this materialistic world, financial stability and material possessions take precedence over emotional bonds. This reality leads to a disconnect where true love and understanding are overshadowed by financial considerations. The focus shifts from genuine emotional connection to maintaining an appearance of a perfect life.

In the end, what do you, as the "drunken man," know about how they feel now? Do you truly understand the emotional turmoil they experience, or are you merely a passive participant in this intricate dance of imposed decisions and material pursuits?

Neglected to fight his own thoughts.

In many cases, these individuals easily get bored. They become bored with no good night, no brighter morning, and a monotonous routine that fails to fulfill their emotional needs. They seek excitement and novelty, but without a genuine emotional connection, they are left feeling empty and unfulfilled. The promise of a brighter morning fades away as they realize that their relationships lack the depth and mutual understanding needed to sustain true love.

I know that some men are not fully manipulated but driven by their own ego of love and being the best to do, and one thing they always forget is doing is not love. It can be affection, but affection without moral values is worthless to humanity. Dwell with me as I tell you what I discovered; it might literally change men in the future not engage but karma.

This story serves as a powerful reminder of the importance of empathy, understanding, and genuine emotional connection in relationships. It highlights the need for awareness and appreciation of those who dedicate their lives to the well-being of others. Communities must recognize the sacrifices made by their silent guardians and ensure that they are not taken for granted.

Let this be a lesson to all who share the beauty of nature that Africa is blessed with. Money should not be the tool to destroy what can build a nation. Instead, it should empower and uplift. By learning from this ongoing story, we can create a world where silent guardians are celebrated, supported, and never taken for granted.