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A Better You Without Self: Letting Go of the "Me"

Mindset is like a river We often think getting "better" means making our "self" stronger – learning more, earning more, showing how good we are. But what if the real path to a truly better you is found by gently letting go of that very "self"? "A Better You Without Self" isn't about disappearing; it's a deep look at who we think we are and how that plays into everything we do, whether we're alone or with others. At the heart of this idea is what we can call the "Me-Story" – all the thoughts, names, and tales we tell ourselves about who we are. This "Me-Story" can push us to do great things, helping us find our spot in the world. But it can also be like a heavy chain. When we only do things to get praise, to feel important, or to keep up a certain look, we shrink what's possible. Fear of messing up, the sting of a harsh word, or always needing to prove ourselves can stop new ideas, block real connections, and ke...

Thoughts and Decisions Crumble the Wall

F1. Wall to walk, not to talk In every connection, whether it’s family, a partnership, or even a business team, a silent wall can begin to form. It’s not built of bricks and mortar but of different ways of seeing things, especially when it comes to deeply held beliefs about power and the role of family. Imagine two individuals. One might draw their strength from tradition, from the long-standing ways of their family, and the wisdom passed down through generations. For them, family rules are the backbone, providing a clear path and a sense of belonging. Their understanding of power comes from this shared history and the authority of what has always been. The other might be driven by the desire for something new, for personal choice, and fresh ideas. Their power comes from forging their own path, from innovation, and from the freedom to make independent decisions. For this person, family strength is found in individual growth, the ability to evolve, and the space to express oneself authe...

The Mix-Generation Are Now Beyond Recognition

  Lost in rain Introduction The complexities and challenges faced by the mixed generation. Defined by a unique blend of cultural influences and societal changes, this generation stands at a crossroads, grappling with issues of identity, happiness, and media influence. As we delve into these themes, we’ll uncover the importance of authenticity and the need to cultivate genuine connections. The Quest for True Happiness  In a world saturated with images of luxury and success, it’s to define our happiness by the things we aspire to possess. Many of us get caught up in the fleeting buzz of materialism, forgetting that true joy comes from being authentic and embracing who we really are. While it’s perfectly natural to appreciate the allure of flashy cars or celebrity lifestyles, we must recognize the distinction between admiration and aspiration. True fulfillment stems from understanding our unique values and passions, rather than chasing after unattainable standards set by external...

The Living or the Dead: We Show to Be Seen?

  We Show to Be Seen? Humanity has Lost Course People in modern society, particularly in Namibia at large, have lost sight of communal values and support, leading to selfish and isolated living. Humanity has lost its course. In today's life, most people live at their own costs. They live separate lives and care only for themselves. They live to show everyone how good their lives are progressing. They are there, trending on social media, displaying how they can afford many things. They show it for everyone to see. However, they don't give back to the poor, the needy people who are next to them. They do not feed those who are hungry, even when they come crying next to them. They have no love for others, no affection for those suffering. The Roots of Selfishness People tend to focus on material wealth and social validation, neglecting genuine connections and support for those in need. Why do they do this? Maybe they are greedy or just selfish. Yes, they are selfish because they ha...

The Intrinsic Values of Faith, Truth, and the Soul: A Reflective Exploration

   The Values of Faith, Truth, and the Soul In life's intricate encounter moments that compel us to reflect on our core values. Ladislaus H. Munango's profound query—"What do you value most: faith, truth, or your soul?"—invites us to delve deep into our innermost beliefs and convictions. This question is not merely philosophical; it touches the very essence of what it means to live a meaningful life. Each of these values—faith, truth, and the soul—holds its unique significance and power, guiding us through the labyrinth of existence. Faith: The Unwavering Beacon Faith, in its broadest sense, represents an unwavering belief in something greater than oneself. For many, faith is the cornerstone of their existence, providing a sense of purpose, hope, and resilience in the face of adversity. It is the belief in the unseen, the trust in a higher power, and the conviction that there is a greater plan at work. Faith can be a source of immense strength. It helps individuals na...

Exploitation in Kavango East and West: The VaGciriku People and More.

  Introduction Exploitation in the Kavango East region has been a pressing issue, but the question remains: who is responsible for this utilization? What exactly is being exploited, and who are the victims? This article will delve into these questions, focusing on the VaGciriku people and other ethnic groups in Kavango East. We will also explore the ignorance surrounding these allegations and its impact on the victims, who certainly do not deserve such exploitation. The VaGciriku People and Their Struggles The VaGciriku people, who reside in Kavango East, are losing their traditions. This loss is happening due to the kindness and ignorance of the elderly people. Imagine watching others change your language, making it sound ridiculous in their language, and feeling powerless to stop it. This is the harsh reality faced by the VaGciriku people. The Origins of Exploitation In both Kavango East and West, the largest town has always been Rundu. This town, situated in Kavango ...

A Probe of Professors and Their Long Hair

   In academia, the image of a professor often evokes a mix of stereotypes, including wisdom, eccentricity, and a relaxed approach to personal appearance. One notable characteristic among some faculty members is their long hair, which raises questions about its significance and maintenance.   A Study in Individuality For many professors, long hair serves as a form of self-expression. In an environment where intellectual freedom is celebrated, personal grooming choices can reflect a rejection of societal norms. Long hair allows professors to cultivate a unique identity that aligns with their philosophical beliefs, setting them apart from conventional professional appearances.   The Demands of Academic circles The demands of academic life also play a role in this trend. Professors often balance research, teaching, and administrative duties, leaving little time for personal grooming. In a culture that prioritizes intellectual pursuits over appearances, many faculty memb...

So Many Men (River Runs Tears)

When a man's thought is high, then a bridge  Life is what we take to keep us alive; whether it’s in the past or present, things keep happening. Many men suffer at the hands of women. Like all people, it’s a normal norm for women to do what they do. No one interferes, whether by law or religiously. When women abuse men, use them for their hard work, and manipulate them using their looks or sexism, it often goes unnoticed. Men are born not to cry out loud when they're in pain as women do. This is the story of all the brave men out there who live and die with pain. Your voice will be heard, and I’m here as a messenger making sure the next men will learn from your story. In the heartstrings of relationships, many creatures believe in the power of love without truly understanding what other hearts endure. It is a phenomenon that has been observed through time: people who engage in loving relationships without preparing themselves for the emotional depth and complexities involved. Th...

They Easily Get Bored, Bored With No Good Night, No Brighter Morning: Who Are They?

  It shines brightly from the starts The Illusion of Love In the heartstrings of relationships, many creatures believe in the power of love without truly understanding what other hearts endure. It is a phenomenon that has been observed through time: people who engage in loving relationships without preparing themselves for the emotional depth and complexities involved. Superficial Affection Some individuals can live to like you but never fully embrace loving you. They never delve into the depths of genuine affection but instead appreciate the notion of calling someone an ideal partner. This partner, in the end, doesn't participate actively in the relationship. Imposed Decisions In these relationships, decisions are often imposed on you. The other person decides everything and tries to make it appear as though their feelings are directed towards you, but in reality, they can only view life from their own perspective. The essence of a loving relationship is lost in the midst of these...

Tradition and Culture in Namibia: A Deep Dive into the Kavango Regions

Namibia, a country known for its vast landscapes and rich biodiversity, is also home to a diverse tapestry of traditions and cultures. Among its many regions, the Kavango East and Kavango West stand out for their unique cultural heritage. But what do we mean by tradition and culture, and how do they influence the people of these regions? Understanding Tradition and Culture Tradition refers to the customs, beliefs, and practices passed down from generation to generation. It is the bedrock of a community's identity, preserving its history and values. Traditions can manifest in various forms, including rituals, ceremonies, and folklore. Culture , on the other hand, is a broader concept that encompasses the arts, social norms, language, and everyday practices of a community. It is the dynamic and evolving expression of a group's way of life. While tradition is often seen as static and unchanging, culture is fluid, adapting to new influences and circumstances. Together, the...